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Our Stories
Here we openly share our stories, struggles, hopes, and needs for the future. The Young Onset Dementia Carers Collective is actively fundraising. If we really want to do right by people with dementia, we have to care for the carers. Help us help ourselves.


Community Impact | Recognised, But Still Waiting
Young Onset Dementia Collective receives Minister of Health Volunteer Award The Young Onset Dementia Collective has been honoured with the 2026 Minister of Health Volunteer Award, recognised as 'Winners of the Disabled Health Category'. On the surface, it’s a moment of celebration. And it absolutely should be. This award, as described in the Government’s announcement, recognises those who are making a meaningful difference - helping to create a health system that is more acce


Coffee with Mum, on Mother’s Day
My mum is 93. She has a laptop, an iPhone, social media accounts—and still drives the family RAV4. She’s sharp, independent, and generally well… unlike my husband, her son-in-law, who is living with young onset dementia.


“But They Seem Fine”
Dementia is not just memory loss. In younger onset dementia, memory is often not the first thing to go. What changes instead is cognition - how the brain processes, interprets, and responds to the world.


When a Diagnosis Costs More Than a Job
When Ricky told RNZ, “The government essentially wipes their hands and says, your partner is your welfare system,” he gave voice to something many families already know—but rarely see acknowledged.


Purpose, Participation and Brain Health: Rethinking Dementia Support for Younger People
For many people living with young onset dementia, one of the greatest losses is not memory — it is purpose. Careers end abruptly, social roles disappear, and opportunities to contribute to community life can suddenly become limited.


MARK - “Too Young. Too Early. Too Hard” Left to Fall Through the Gaps
Mark is living with young onset dementia — specifically early onset frontal temporal lobe dementia. His journey into diagnosis began the way so many do: subtle changes, growing anxiety, behavioural shifts, and deep concern from someone close enough to notice.


Six Pallets - Proof That Purpose Still Matters
There is a quiet assumption in our communities that when someone is diagnosed with younger onset dementia, their world must immediately shrink.


YOUNGER ONSET DEMENTIA? YOU GET TO STAY HOME
For a person living with dementia in early to mid-stage the Total Mobility Scheme is not a “nice to have” – it is what makes everyday life possible. When you can no longer drive safely, struggle with navigation, timing, memory, or sensory overload on public transport, assisted driving services (ie. Freedom Companion Driving Services and the like) become the bridge between staying connected and becoming isolated.


Carer Burnout is not Personal Failure
Caring for someone living with young onset dementia (YOD) is not simply a role, it becomes a way of life. In Aotearoa New Zealand, where young onset dementia remains poorly understood and chronically under-resourced, carers and whānau often find themselves navigating a system that quietly assumes resilience without providing the structural support required to sustain it.
Why Your Voice Matters - Carers’ Strategy Action Plan
Living with, or caring for someone with, younger onset dementia (YOD) brings challenges that are often invisible, misunderstood, or overlooked. YOD affects people in the midst of working life, parenting, relationships, and community roles, yet most systems and supports are designed with older people in mind.


Christmas from the Heart
The Young Onset Dementia Collective (YODC) had the chance to spread their volunteering wings at Visionwest’s Christmas from the Heart.


Finding Purpose Together at The Re-Creators
With the right space, the right community and the right opportunity, people with young onset dementia can not only flourish, but can make a real difference.


Open Letter from a couple in need echoing the voices of many
November 2025. To the New Zealand Government. I am writing again because I continue to be redirected between offices, and I have now been advised by the Rt Hon Christopher Luxon’s office that my concerns fall under the Health portfolio. I am requesting urgent attention, as my husband and many other New Zealanders living with younger-onset dementia are being devastatingly failed by our current systems.


Embracing Opportunities
The Young Onset Dementia Collective jumped onboard the food truck business for a day, and won over a new fan.


Two Decades of Knowing, Two Decades of Neglect
Analysis - Paul Singh, PhD I often write that the need for age-appropriate support and services for people with Young-onset Dementia (YOD) and their whanau has been ignored by successive governments. It is a theme that runs through almost everything I publish: families living with YOD are left to adapt within systems designed for older people, and their voices are treated as an afterthought. But yesterday, the advocates with lived experience from the Young Onset Dementia Coll


Volunteering at Fair Food, where no one is defined by dementia
Every year as the mid-winter stars appear in the sky, West Auckland food waste charity Fair Food has a Matariki festival to celebrate the stars who make their organisation work.


All sorts of 'Good Sorts'
The Young Onset Dementia Collective’s (YODC) nomination of Fair Food’s lead volunteers Mandy Everill as a ‘Good Sort’ was a no brainer.


Feeling good, doing good - The power of community
Young Onset Dementia Collective working with Fair Food.


Between Night and Day: A Samoan Family’s Journey Through Young Onset Dementia
The signs were subtle at first. Antonia had always been meticulous—clean, organised, house-proud. She would rearrange the sitting room...
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